Sex education for children: How to have 'the talk' with your child?

As a new parent, it is difficult to manage everything. From striking a conversation on sexual health based on your child's gender to educating your child about sex and relationships — everything needs to be precisely planned. Later when they reach their teens, talking to them about sex and explaining what is right and wrong is really important. However, some parents neglect it and do not communicate. 

Here are some things you should keep in mind while imparting sex education.

Don't do it all at once

Don’t try to bombard your kid with all sexual knowledge all at once. If you haven’t started yet, think about your perspective and then take it slow while talking to your kid.

Do make yourself available

You should always be readily available for your kids. They should always come to you with their problems instead of conveying it to someone who gives the wrong advice. Try to create an environment of comfort and openness around the issues. Your kids should feel free to question you and share their concerns. Also, you don’t have to be perfect with everything; be real, and things will work smoothly.

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Don’t overshare

Do not answer more than what has been asked. It happens that while explaining we often end up giving extra information to them, which is wrong. Respond in a way that is favourable and acceptable for your kid. Also, try to get to the bottom of things and know about how they come across this or what made them think about it.

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Consider the setting for your conversations

It is always better to provide a favourable environment for your kids for this talk. They shouldn’t be uncomfortable as it is a new thing for them.

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Consider your teen’s point of view

Don’t just lecture your teen or rely on scare tactics to discourage sexual activity. Instead, listen and invite a discussion so that you understand your kid's point of view on the topic. Understand your teen’s pressures, challenges, and conduct.

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